Category: Dating and Relationships
OK, there's a random guy from Yahoo who's been messaging me. He lives close to me and actually likes me, thinks I'm cute, without any prompting from me. We've managed to talk about school and work and important friendship-building talk, but he's also a horndog. I've been asking people for advice and the majority seems to say give him a week and if he doesn't get his brain on straight, ditch him. What do you all think?
Have you considered the possibility that his horndog behaviour is nothing but an act to try and hide his more sensitive side and the fact that he's actually scared of women ..alot of guys are and this is their defence...
Yes, I've sensed the "nice guy" in him who may be scared to reveal himself. We just talked again recently and he apologized for coming on so strong, and now we're going to take our friendship regularly and slowly, kind of start over.
maybe he's just very atracted to you! henc why he's been acting like that. I mean as long as you talk about other things apart from sex, does it matter?
Melodica I'm glad he feels able to confide in you he's justa frightened little boy trying to act like a man.
..good luck to you both..
nope I reckon he's just atracted to you. All this psycho mumbo jumbo about little boys hiding ... load of rubbish.. he's atracted t you, has a high sex drive most probably, if he's single he most likely feels he hasn't been in a worthwhile relationship for a hwile, and now wants to put that atraction into actions .. smile
It is far from jumbo jmumbo but a proven fact teenage guys are trying to prove themselves to other guys and teenage girls.....
to do this they will act in an extremely macho way in order to prove their masculinity....
matcho and "horny" have very little to do with each other actually ... There is nothing very matcho about trying to feel a girl up on a first date but it may be a bit on the honry side, good or bad, depending on how both parties feel about it, I'd have to say it's a little tactless but perhaps he can be set straight
and in actual fact, most teenage guys who want to appear macho will do so by telling all their friends they've been with ex amount of girls, they don't do it by coming on to all the girls ...
ohh man you need to get out more the teenage guys I have seen, aren't satisfied with just bragging,they have to take their performance 1 step further...
ah but, you're just assuming this guy is a teenager, and in actual fact I believe that is highly unlikely as melodica is already 21 so I wouldn't imagine she'd be wanting to go out with some teenage kid .. and I think the ones you are talking about are probably about 16 which definitely would rule melodica's guy outa the equasion ...
hahah u guys are funny... hahaha I like horny guys... Up to a point...But if they go too fast, ditch them!!!
What did this guy do to you? As for ditching a guy who goes too fast, how about actually talking to the guy about what you both want to do and not do?
Yeah. Let's not totally let the horndog thing go but let's not demonize him either for it! Look we're all horny. Yes girls, you are too. It's just that some people try to deny it and others let some of it out. Others still let too much of that shine through. I have a very high sex drive but you can't move things too fast. However, moving them too slow can cause damage too. The main thing is clear lines of communication. If you can both speak honestly and openly to each other, then you should be able to figure all of this out.
LOL. I see this topic is old but I was reading it and just had to smile. I guess this explains goblin. He really must be a nice guy but he just has to act like a dick all the time because he is afraid of letting his sensitive side out. umm, but as you UK people would say, that is rubbish!!!
Jesus fucking christe people, quit bumping topics that are almost a year old.
I like it when a guy knows what he wants. I like a guy that's not afraid to say things, and if he's attracted to me, I like to know that he is. But there's a fine line, and if he crosses it, that's when red flags go up.
they should clean off the old stuff
I like it when a guy knows what he wants. I like a guy that's not afraid to say things, and if he's attracted to me, I like to know that he is. But there's a fine line, and if he crosses it, that's when red flags go up.
sorry very off topic, but, there's no reason not to go back to old topics, it makes for interesting discussion.
I am not a horn dog, lol. So therefore, a horndog wouldn't be for me, hahahahahaha, right, anyways. But yeah, I don't mind if a guy has a high sex drive... But, at the same time, have respect for the girl.